When a girl says let’s go out with friends: what to do?

Sgo out with a girl represents a result that should not be underestimated at all. To do this, you must have successfully completed a sequence of steps.
It must be admitted that the first date it is always a great emotion, no matter how many times the great seducer has experienced it. It is always an event that brings exhilaration, fear and exciting possibilities. So much so that some seducers even become addicted to it and begin to consider the first date as the most interesting meeting they can have with a woman. As soon as this ends, they would like a first date with someone else.
These are obviously extreme cases, but going out with a woman or a girl is for everyone the culmination of their path of conquest and therefore a very important moment. Their game, their seduction, their humor and their techniques, all this has led them to where they are. Despite all the mistakes they may have made so far, when asked decisively if she wanted to go for coffee or an aperitif, their wife replied Yes.

Before asking for the first date, you have to seduce her

Whoever the woman in question was – old friend, co-worker, stranger you just met – you decided to seduce her because, for whatever reason, you liked her. You want to take him somewhere to start the conquest. But already at this stage you run the risk of a very common first mistake. You invite him without even vaguely seducing her and you are obviously surprised by the two of spades he has in store for you.
A woman will never say yes to going out with a man she doesn’t like at all. Unless I have already relegated you to one of the well-known categories:

• friend
• losing,
• doormat,
• asexual,
• hopeless,
• confidant

You must immediately assume the role of SEDUCER.
In trying to avoid this basic error, however, the first snag is encountered. You are not going to seduce the woman right away because you have terror paralyzing that the decisive question is simply answered No. Maybe you also thought of the classic “we go out as friends“, which I will tell you about shortly. This is exactly where you manifest your qualities alpha male overcome this banal fear.

4 things you should (Quite) to avoid on a first date

1. Compliment,
2. Present,
3. favors,
4. Any form of doormat.

You must understand that this woman must be seduced from the beginning.

4 reasons why he asks you as a friend

1. You are a true friend and she perceives you as such. This happens when you’ve been offering her your shoulder for a long time and you’ve NEVER done anything to seduce her.
2. She’s already busy. However, not wanting to rule out the possibility of meeting you, he tells you that you are going out as friends, that way he doesn’t come off as a “slut”.
3. She got bored of receiving 80,000 invitations and in the end, but only out of desperation, she accepted
4. She is confused and doesn’t know what she wants. Basically, she can’t tell you yet and by telling you like that, she’s safe.

Going out as a couple or with other people?

The inexperienced reader wonders: “But what if he then asks me to meet in the company of other people, as mutual friends?” What we fear is that hang out with more people is a sign of the woman who does not want an intimate encounter. But is it really true?
As I try to explain in the dating article, the underlying reason why the woman is asking this doesn’t matter, and your guess is a complete waste of time. I want you to ignore the sea of ​​nonsense about the right way to behave on a first date.
The truth is that all you need is to show yourself as an interesting, relaxed and confident person. A normal behavior it will absolutely be enough for you to make a woman feel good on a date. But to be such a man, of course, you will have to become an Alpha male. Because it is the Alpha male who manages life with lightness and serenity without ever trying to appear more handsome than he is.
Of course I could start writing you the decalogue of basic rules of behavior so that you can make a good impression. Unfortunately, it’s not that easy. Lbody language Even if you continually adjust it, it will still communicate something to the woman that will do the opposite of making her feel comfortable. Women have a flair for the aura of uncertainty and inconsistency you give off when you pretend to be confident. The real effect is that you look “strange”.
If you think you would do well to go to take her home before the appointment, do it. Ignore the idiots who like to force a woman to go to extreme lengths to show she’s interested. A touch of chivalry actually helps make you look good and has nothing to do with the doormat I mentioned above. An Alpha male doesn’t think about this difference: he acts because he knows it’s what he wants. His own confidence makes him successful. Therefore: if you think she might like it, go for it!
I tell you this in clear terms. You may also have learned all the seduction techniques peddled by web gurus, memorized every thing to do and say at every moment, learned in detail how and when to touch her and really studied body language – but if at the level personal, intimate, you’re not really ready, there will always be that “weird” something that won’t ignite the spark.
When it comes to the dreaded group outing, I invite you to consider it as a valuable opportunity that should not discourage you simply because it takes place in a group. If she wanted it that way, she will have her reasons too, which shouldn’t interest you. The advantages of going out with the woman are always multiple and the first date is often overloaded with unnecessary pressures which spoil it.
Being around multiple people gives you the advantage of being distracted, allowing you to turn your attention to someone else in an awkward moment. Above all, you demonstrate to her that you are a competent “social animal”. Chances are you’re comfortable around your friends and can convincingly communicate (because it’s natural) that you are confident and sincere.
avoid playing the clown who absolutely must make everyone laugh. Leave her with the others for a moment; make him miss you momentarily, which you can easily do without being rude. During a date for two, the moments of embarrassment, normal during a first meeting, can become heavy if you cannot deflate them with your lightness and humor.
Women are much less confident than they appear on a first date. They have all the fears and insecurities that you have, plus they have a vague fear that you are becoming a dangerous maniac. You probably don’t have this thought. If you think about it, it’s understandable why they wouldn’t launch a suicide attack on a man they don’t know well yet.