Let almost every guru in the world tell you that physical aspect you count for little in seduction, that’s their problem. You and I know it’s one big lie.
As much as you want to convince yourself by reading lies that you are more beautiful than you think, you also need to reconcile with reality. The hottest girl you know doesn’t pay attention to you not because she didn’t really know you…
She doesn’t care because she looks at you and what she sees of you doesn’t attract her. I know it’s a hard truth…
But does that mean you are hopeless? No! Of course you have – but you need to improve.
Let’s put aside all the hypocrisies about social conditioning based on image and appearance. I point out to you that the entire animal world, when it does sexual selection, does so on the basis of the physical qualities of its members. What is true for the lioness is also true for the woman.
Physical beauty is even synonymous with health.
I don’t want to trivialize your life experience, but let’s tell the truth. One of the first things you notice about a woman is her tits, and when you turn around, her ass. You actually admit that these are the things that are important to you.
Fortunately for you, it must be said that women are not like that. Far beyond physical appearance and qualities such as shoulders squarecarved jaw and the clothing luxury Women find certain other things fascinating about a man.
But hello! Your exposed white socks, dirty shirt, and randomly placed jeans are stopped at the entrance. One look is enough for him to tell you No. You are rejected at the club door and not admitted. You have a choice: either you find a place where they let you in as you are, or you start improve your physical appearance.
I think you got the message. It’s time to get admitted to those VIP clubs you’ve never been admitted to before. Where the bouncers never let you in.
Start by asking others to help you understand how they see you physically
To redo your look for the better, ask for help. The benefit will not only be for your image but also for your character, for your ability to receive criticism. Ask a friend – even better a friend – who is generally successful in her relationships to take a look at your wardrobe.
Open the closet and let it sort your clothes between what they like and what they don’t like. You already know the next step: the pile of clothes you don’t like needs to be removed. You have to get rid of it.
Pay attention to the men around you, their clothes, accessories, hairstyle, physique. All elements of the exterior appearance. Imagine yourself dressed and styled like them. Do you love yourself? Imagine how comfortable you would feel? Take this into consideration. It’s more than possible that you too can achieve this look. From each man you think is well dressed, select one item from his suit and buy it (with good financial sense, of course).
Perhaps accompanied by the person who helped you unpack your closet, visit the boutiques.
Try the things you’ve decided to try. And tell me: don’t you already feel the difference? Do you no longer feel attractive?
After fixing the exterior of the body, what remains to be done? This will be my somewhat mystical way of seeing things, but I consider the body to be a magnificent gift. It is agile, efficient and powerful. He is capable of a thousand sensations; that’s great.
How dare we let it go to waste?
In other words, it might be time to invest a few hours in working out at the gym.
Without even going into details, I’ll present it like this. If at the seaside you feel like mozzarella, white, greasy and sweaty – a few months (or years) of gym and nutrition accompanied by a few lamps will certainly do you good.
