by L’female excitement it works in a significantly different way than men – we need to understand this from the start so as not to make some very common mistakes and start improving our own arousal techniques as soon as possible.
Let us first consider that in both men and women, arousal is primarily psychological but that in women the psychological aspect is very important.
Basically, a woman needs to be mentally aroused before she can be physically aroused, and unless you’re already in an intimate relationship, it’s very difficult. excite the woman everything at once.
The woman needs time and gradually. Requires patience.
In the following paragraphs I want to give you some concrete advice on how to excite a woman. But I also want to highlight ideas about female psychology that emerge along the way.
I would like you to master the principles offemale excitement and you combine them with what you will discover in terms of arousal about the particular woman you would like to arouse.
Because different women are aroused differently. However, it is always possible to adapt to the woman’s particular needs by memorizing the techniques available to you and experimenting first with one and then the other.
To understand what you need to do to excite the woman particular in front of you begins to use communication.
How to turn a woman on: Communication
Assuming women don’t want to talk to you about their sexual preferences and what excites them this is a serious mistake. Perhaps it was once true that sexuality was a taboo subject for “good women”.
Women these days are inclined to give you very clear indications of what they want as long as you know how to ask the question.
From a certain level of trust with the woman, it is possible to ask her opinion on sexual matters. In a romantic relationship it’s more than possible: it’s easy. Many women really appreciate being able to express themselves.
They find the very act of talking about it exciting and feel that they are thus creating greater trust with the man.
Communicate with the woman about what turns him on is an immediate way to figure out how to turn him on.
I will never take this step for granted because I know for sure that many men don’t remember to do this very simple thing: ask.
I think you also intuitively understand the great erotic potential of communication on this topic.
Like I told you, women love to talk about it. But sex talk is also a great sexual tool (more advanced, naughtier flirting) and a valuable tool preliminary.
Many couples integrate sexual conversation into the relationship through sexting (sexual messages).
Patience and progressiveness
THE the preliminaries they have a decisive importance in female sexuality and it is not possible to ignore them. You must devote yourself to his body and mind, especially in the sexual act itself, methodically and patience.
This of course means that you don’t have to be in a hurry — neither in seduction, nor inwoman’s excitementnor during actual sexual intercourse.
The three activities should be built gradually to give the woman the opportunity to emotionally accept what is happening, get used to it and enjoy it at all times.
The male rush to seduce and make love is a proverbial female frustration.
Anticipation increases excitement
THE the preliminaries they serve to excite the woman in preparation for so-called real sex. They do this by allowing the woman to enjoy different stimuli and giving her the time and means to relax. But foreplay also allows the influence of another erotic factor, theWait.
Waiting increases arousal in women. This is too important a concept to ignore.
While you wait, it is the woman’s mind, the center of all her desire, that creates the arousal on its own or with a little help from you.
THE sexting it is an ideal tool for this very reason, but even the simple allusion to the possibility of sex is enough for the woman to start fantasizing and becoming aroused.
Observe body language and words
There Communication could pave your way to woman’s sexual satisfaction. However, the indications he gives you verbally can be ambiguous and weak.
Not all women know what they want sexually and not all want to confess everything. Women also want to be discovered and explored.
This is why the body language of the woman must be observed in addition to the information that her words have given you.
I’m referring both to her bodily reactions during flirting and sexual talk as well as how she perceives the the preliminaries.
The same general principle of observation applies to discovering a woman’s preferred erogenous zones and how she likes to be stimulated.
As for his sexual fantasies the same goes for concrete sexual acts: in addition to talking about what turns him on, observe him directly. You will thus allow the woman to discover them with you and to benefit from your discovery of things that she preferred not to tell you in words.
Show yourself capable of mastering it
In the erotic domain, women almost without exception appreciate (to say the least) the man capable of dominate her.
This does not mean that they want to dominate the emotional relationship – the two spheres often appear completely independent.
By “dominate her” I mean showing her physical strength in moments of passion when you hold her, hug her, or penetrate her.
I am also referring to the ability to say what you want (o request) of her and the ability to give him orders. You’ll be surprised how many women go crazy over this type of sexual approach, even though it doesn’t always apply.
Domination-submission fantasies are among the most common erotic fantasies among women.
For the majority of them who enjoy sex, finding a man who can fulfill them from time to time means finding a lover who can turn them on easily.
In addition to the use of bonds, gags and blindfolds — which I will let you explore with the woman in particular (and which are a common element of domination-submission games) — allow me to emphasize the importance of erotic language during sexual intercourse and during seduction.
This is another one of the things that women really like and should be experimented with gradually. Many women find the language aggressive and vulgar during sex very exciting.
It is an extension of the pleasure of talking about sex and an element of domination play.
Notice how even while flirting, men and women often play games of pretend aggression and mutual insults.
They are a means of creating intimacy and suggest, on the man’s side, the ability to become the dominator when necessary.
Don’t neglect the woman
The mistake that we sometimes make during seduction but which is even more serious during foreplay or during sexual intercourse is to neglect the woman.
Penetration creates the temptation for men to focus on themselves, to physically distance themselves from the woman, to stop stimulating her in more than one way, and even to stop thinking about her.
The woman easily realizes that your effort to satisfy her has become repetitive and mechanical and that you are not fully present in the intimate situation that is certainly so important to her.
And it is with physical withdrawal – which often stops the stimulus with the hands and mouth – that the woman begins to feel “used”, however unjustified this feeling may be in an emotional relationship.
It is your duty to give yourself to the woman consistently when you are with her and trying to seduce her, excite her or make her have a Orgasm.
The principle of non-distraction is as valid during a first date as during yet another fuck.
Introduce something new into your relationship
What atrophies many romantic relationships is the kryptonite ofsexual arousal It’s predictability.
What turns women on is the feeling of Advertisement and adventure. The man who seems capable of providing it is exciting in itself.
It follows that you should, as much as possible, be the man who creates the new thing in the woman’s life.
Even going out to a new place or an unexpected outing can excite a woman emotionally and bond her to you.
But I also want you to note the purely erotic aspect of the novelty.
In the sexual sphere, novelty is just as exciting. Therefore, absolutely consider some sexual positions new things, new sexual contexts (e.g. outside or in the shower), different and exciting things to say, and finally different sexual tools to use.
I have already mentioned the possibility of using blindfolds and handcuffs.
Even more exciting for the woman are the sex toyswhich exist in the most varied forms. And don’t underestimate artificial lubricants either.
You will try to make the woman experience different sensations which will be exciting simply by their novelty.
You certainly won’t have to innovate your techniques every day, just add something new every now and then, something original, something she didn’t expect.
How to excite a woman: the conclusions
Feminine arousal, as we have seen, relates to the macro-topic of seduction. The same dynamic operates in the seduction of women and in thefemale sexual arousal both being largely based on the psychological elaboration that the woman carries out.
Excites a woman it means fulfilling one’s sexual desires.
These are discovered through conversation and through the study of women: through words and body language. With a lot of patience and gradually these desires are welcomed and solicited, mainly by taking care of the context and the the preliminariesthe real key to women’s sexual satisfaction.
In addition to experimenting with the techniques described above, I can confidently recommend that you use your direct personal experience to learn more about the different ways of excite a woman.
You will always need to adapt your theoretical and practical knowledge to the woman you want to excite. With resources, however, everything will be easier.
