by Without physical contact seduction is just a hypothesis, a conversation at the bar with friends. To seduce and conquer a woman technique and method are necessary.
I will never tire of telling you how physical contact is the basis on which seduction is based. THE physical contact determine the speed of your progress with the woman in question.
To successfully seduce through physical contact, keep the following key points in mind:
- THE to correct body language. By communicating insecurity, you will hardly succeed. A calm sense of self-confidence will make all the difference in the world, from the first approach to the first physical contact.
- A feeling of lightness, playfulness and irony. This is what makes this whole attempt at seduction a game that you both enjoy. It’s also a way to get rid of embarrassment and gain courage.
- A well-groomed physical appearance. This will always play a role in your interactions with women, but on the surface it will definitely make a difference.
- Finally, physical contact in itself. Touch is the essential part of seduction, yet many fear it. As if doing the most natural thing in the world – touching a woman – is scandalous and gets everyone’s attention. Nothing could be further from the truth, as you will see.
How to establish physical contact?
We know that for the inexperienced, physical contact is often a terror. As a result, their gestures become mechanical, thus attracting the attention of the public that they would have liked to avoid.
In short, a disaster.
Under the influence of this fear, seduction becomes clumsy and ineffective. Above all, we never arrive at the decisive moment of physical contact itself. The discouragement that hits you then creates a real vicious circle where you do not enter into physical contact with a woman because you do not have the experience. With your self-esteem plummeting, you decide not to even try anymore, because you don’t think you can do it and because you think everyone’s eyes are on you.
Physical contact as the first gesture in the game of seduction
As always repeated in these pages, physical contact is what conquers a woman or a girl. For those who are already able to start it, the game is quite easy. If you don’t cast it, wait until she does. After a short interval, you reciprocate with a similar or bolder touch.
This is a little different from that situation in which a friend teased you, perhaps with a little joke, and you gave him an answer in response. nudge. Or when you put your hand on his forearm because he couldn’t stop talking.
It’s that simple. By reading their body language, you will understand if your touch was accepted or perhaps appreciated. If so, this is a sign that in your relationship such contact is legitimate and can be repeated at any time.
But this is precisely where you need to move forward. What you need now is a escalation .
The problem of being clumsy
As I told you above, your body language it’s to make you appear confident before you become confident. But those who are afraid in front of a girl usually behave in one of two ways:
- He acts as if he has been set on fire;
- He stands, petrified, like a sculpted statue.
People with the first condition, restless and unfocused as they are, are unlikely to touch a woman in a way that is pleasurable to her. Plus, their body language communicates nothing other than insecurity, which she definitely doesn’t find attractive.
The case of the impaled is perhaps even worse. They transmit complete fear to women, with their own posture generally closed, intimidating and the absence of body movements that indicate vitality and presence.
First tip: Learn to gesture
By that, I definitely don’t mean acting like a jerk (see the paragraph above about frenzied behavior). I mean you learn to use hand gestures to add strength to your arguments and to capture the attention of those listening to you. remember that hands are one of the main tools of communication. If you’re afraid of exaggerating, simply keep one hand in your pocket and, with your body still, make a natural gesture with the other hand. Nothing’s easier.
Gestures allow you to make physical contact during conversation, because the touch of your already moving hand will appear as a natural part of the flow of your speech.
Conversely, an embalmed mummy suddenly reaching out to touch a woman would be the most unnatural thing possible.
the second tip: Proxemics
Proxemics is the science that studies proximity and bodily interactions between people – it teaches that the distance between two individuals indicates the degree of intimacy who have. Five feet of distance obviously indicates little or no privacy. The distance of 50 cm obviously indicates that high intimacy is likely.
Now imagine a guy trying to make physical contact with a woman from five feet away. The time and effort that physical contact will require will make this interaction anything but natural.
So approach the woman and abolish distances. Standing within three feet of her—and ideally less than two feet—the playful nudge mentioned above will be as easy on you as it is on her.
The advantage of both tips presented here is that in addition to establishing the necessary physical contact with the woman you are interested in, they offer the woman the opportunity to reciprocate by touching you in return. This is how this strong signal from their body language that indicates interest is achieved.
Conclusion
We often receive several stories from our readers where the seduction began upon contact. Many events concern for example physical contact between work colleagues (married or single) where is the colleague the man to take the first step from contact, for example by increasing the number of touches and physical gestures during conversations or by holding the gaze for longer. Think about it, there are even some who seduce their sister-in-law by applying these simple but effective tips.
Everything then almost always leads to an increase in mutual attraction and pleasure.
