You absolutely have to know how to masturbate a woman.
Many women enjoy masturbation at least as much as men, even if they are not inclined to admit it.
But, above all, masturbation often has two very important sexual functions for them:
- there is by preliminary to sex — some women feel that they cannot do without it before penetration;
- it replaces sex when there is no way to do it (like in a public place) or when masturbation is exactly what the woman wants at that moment.
How to Masturbate a Woman – Step 1
Precisely because it often serves as a prerequisite for sex (and because it can also begin in a public place) the partner’s masturbation of the woman generally begins with the hand between the thighs which begins to create pressure and friction on the area of the clitoris. This activity can be done very well over clothing.
The woman who enjoys your touch will start to show signs: breathing faster, sighing, moaning, cuddling, telling you not to stop, or arching her back so that the contact area between your hand and her clitoris adjusts.
How to masturbate a woman – Phase 2
From external masturbation we move on, if the opportunity arises, to masturbation under pants and over underwear. Closer contact will in itself be more intense and effective. We focus on this phase both because you want to excite her with the expectation of direct contact and because the sensation above the panties is pleasant and different – the woman will want to feel the diversity of sensations in succession .
The last phase will be your hand on the skin. At this point, if the foreplay was good, she will be wet and eager for stronger contact.
In the case of naked woman indirect contact obviously won’t happen – hope you did the right thing and got your hands on it Before to undress her.
However you came to place your fingers on her intimacy, remember that the erotic crescendo we call the preliminaries this is much more important for women than for men. By bathing, the woman prepares herself for contact that might otherwise be rough and painful.
The other big reason why women crave foreplay is that the gradual invasion by the partner is in itself a pleasure. To give you a musical analogy: it’s as if the woman, the moment your palm enters between her legs, begins to hear a symphony that will grow and rise until a spectacular explosion.
Attacking the woman in her most intimate part without any foreplay is tantamount to an unexpected explosion of shrill sounds. It’s almost certain that it doesn’t suit his taste.
How the female body works
In the masturbating woman you will need to consider a few concepts, all of which are within your reach. The first is the physiological preference a woman may have for clitoral masturbation (more common) over vaginal masturbation (less common).
Of course, you may not know his preference the first time you try it – and it’s not recommended to ask him right away. But later, if she doesn’t tell you, you’ll go ask her. THE like, how prefers to be touched it’s important and you need it to start doing good work and to improve as you get to know it better.
THE clitoris — a very sensitive organ but fortunately dedicated only to sexual pleasure and therefore your number 1 ally — you must handle it lightly, especially in the phase where you are still building up your excitement.
The palmar contact that I spoke to you about earlier is ideal in the construction phase. But even then, the level of pressure should not be exaggerated. THE finger touch he will be cautious at first and never aggressive anyway, rely on his reactions to adjust the intensity. Ideally, your fingers won’t be colder than her skin, and you’ll never touch her clitoris with your nails.
Whether fingers on the clitoris or inside the vagina, the rotating movement will start slowly and build up as her reactions intensify. It will have a sustained and constant rhythm. Useful information: Pace is more important than speed.
5 tips for masturbating a woman
- Use sex toys that she likes: they are fun, create novelty and increase sexual pleasure.
- A cold or icy sex toy can have a special effect.
- The jet of water in the bathtub applied to the clitoris can be very pleasant. Modulate the intensity and heat according to your preferences.
- Combine penetration with masturbation combining clitoral contact and vaginal contact. For many women, this is the ideal way to be penetrated.
- Combine masturbation with stimulation of the particular erogenous zones of the woman in question.
