by If you have learned that physical contact is pure seduction, you will also understand how escalation of physical contact is the decisive step to becoming a skillful seducer.
Physical contact it is the language of the soul. Through the body we speak the truth, unlike words, which lie and sow confusion.
In the thousands of requests for advice I have read so far, I have always found a distinct lack of physical contact with the woman. It seems that many are of the opinion that caressing a woman and cuddling her are things that are only done between engaged couples.
First of all, to learn how to touch a woman, make sure you have carefully observed the people around you. I strongly advise against studying these physical climbing guidelines if you have not yet learned them how to achieve physical contact. I tell you right away that patience is required and who is the like, how you getting there matters almost as much as the result itself. So study too body language of the woman to understand how to behave.
Physical contact is not just a mechanical thing, like opening a computer case or changing the oil in a car. Indeed, in seduction, each moment is different from the previous one and individual moments are unique. They depend on the woman in question, where you are, the time of day, and countless other variables that you can’t even fathom.
So OBSERVE, notice how others behave, especially couples.
You will surely realize one thing: very few people touch each other. The education we receive today has caused almost everyone to avoid physical contact like the plague. However, you will also notice a second thing: these few people who touch each other build an intimate relationship without anyone noticing their actions.
The truth is that no one cares about you and no one looks at you. Maybe you feel like the whole world is watching you when you put your hand on the shoulder of a woman you love. You are wrong. Your physical touch will not notice none apart from her – no one.
How to do a physical climb?
You will proceed gradually, increasing the contact little by little. The sexual energy will thus be accentuated and the woman will not be left with the impression that you are a friend.
The sensations that the growing contact will awaken in her will gradually loosen these natural and rational barriers that a woman erects. In words these rational barriers (I repeat) are difficult to lower, because she naturally defends them. But against the emotions caused by physical contact, there is no barrier that holds. They disintegrate.
The woman must feel uninhibited enough to brush your hand, touch you, kiss you and whatever else you feel like doing. It’s your physical contact that should make her uninhibited. It is your touch that must communicate the sensations that you are capable of providing.
The contact escalation we are talking about is not a recipe and it is not a standard procedure. It will be up to you to adapt it to the woman in front of you, just as you will adapt it to the context and the atmosphere.
Contact escalation rules
- First contact by chance – like touching her on the arm when speaking to her or asking to speak. Simple; it will only last for a while.
- Friendly contact – like the playful nudge, the fake slap, the shoulder to shoulder. It will have the effect of a caress and will be more obvious than the previous contact.
- Seductive touch – like the arm around her waist or the gesture of approaching her to say something. Even the hug, the caress on the face, the hands or the hair. Without excluding the possible shoulder massage. This step absolutely requires that she be completely comfortable with you.
- Proximity. Abolish the distances and approach her, your face so close that a single movement on your part is enough to kiss her.
The duration of each phase of the escalation of physical contact will have a duration decided by his reactions. If seductive touch gives you a sign of discomfort, go back two steps and start again with casual touch. If he already doesn’t like you too friendly, avoid trying for a while. It always starts again from random touch.
Track progress, seize opportunities, and make physical contact.
Responses to certain requests we receive in the editorial office:
We always receive several requests from men who ask us how to intensify physical contact at first and especially at second date. We will delve more with the following articles, for now I can tell you that physical contact on the second date depends 99% on how you behaved on the first date.
The importance of doing the right escalation on the first date is crucial because it takes you out of the friend zone (friend zone), the one we have all fallen into at least once in our lives, the classic “…for me you are just a friend“.
You understand that physical escalation is essential and can always make a difference, especially with an indecisive girl
