by Conquer a girlfriend — an idea that every man has sooner or later in life. A king-seduction reader offers the typical case:
“There’s a girl I talk to from time to time at work who I really like but I’ve never tried to do anything knowing she’s engaged.
The guy she’s with seems like a complete idiot to me, I also know that he doesn’t treat her well (she told me that one of the rare times she talked to me about it). She told me that I am very nice and that she appreciates the way I treat her, but that there has never been any physical contact because she is engaged. She often makes eyes at me, we joked about the two of us going on a date, her asking me (jokingly) where I would take her out.
Then the theme ends and I don’t always open it again for the same reason. Her boyfriend saw us together a few times and always seemed bored. It happened that he called her to scold her and she ran away to calm him down. It’s clear to me that he would be better off with me than with a loser like that, but what do you recommend? How can I win over an engaged woman?
From what you tell me, the boyfriend seems like a vulgar and stupid guy, but I immediately point out that the only thing that matters is that she loves him.
Why does she like it? Firstly because an authoritarian or even violent man inspires women strong emotions which are easily confused with the perception of a masculinity strong.
And it is also true that a man who behaves like this makes possible this psychodrama of moaning, of consulting with friends, of meditations on pain and victimization that makes them feel important.
A “silly” man like the one you describe provides the woman with an emotional cocktail which, even if it is a little too strong, has its sweetness and is obviously intoxicating. Such a man enforces his decisions, asserts his will and commands the situation. He does not allow himself to be reduced to a doormat as many do.
Until you accept this reality, you will continue to wonder how a sweet and kind woman can get engaged to a caveman.
And I also tell you that I don’t think this type of approach is the right one to seduce and be a Real man. This is the approach of the adolescent bully who, because he is afraid, attacks first and preys on the weakest.
Because that’s the only way he can appear strong. Obviously, as soon as one of his models approaches, he runs away.
How to seduce a girlfriend: what strategy do you want to use?
So let’s try to make you acquire these positive and seductive traits that the boyfriend possesses but uses in the wrong way. (Let’s not forget that in seduction, the end justifies the means.) Her seductive attitude, such as it is, would not strike a chord in a less confident woman. Indeed, it would easily be repulsive.
In the conquer an engaged girl you will follow a structured course aimed at making you personally more “solid”, more imposing in the eyes of women. Ask yourself what she likes and doesn’t like about her boyfriend.
Filter its characteristics with your rationality. She observes, for example, that she likes her boyfriend’s security and dislikes the bullying associated with it. Just like she doesn’t like his vulgarity but she likes his frankness.
Decide which seductive characteristics you have developed the most and start showing them in front of the woman. Expose yourself and take the risks you need to take. For example: the next time your boyfriend calls her back with his usual dryness, hold her with your arm and say hello properly. Then leave first.
Let you decide when your date is over, not the aggressive boyfriend and not her.
Conclusion
The rest of your strategy will assume that you don’t care whether she’s engaged or not. Study the body language and start showing self-confidence. This trait alone will capture his interest. The only difference between a single woman and a girlfriend is this: your behavior.
