by Cunnilingus — the practice of oral stimulation of the vagina — is a sexual activity that every man must be able to practice. Almost all women want it, some as a complete sexual act in itself, others as foreplay or an exciting digression into sex. sex real. There is no excuse for ignoring the basics of cunnilingus.
(Note on the term. Today we use Latin cunnilingus due to English influence. Perhaps it goes without saying that the activity is preferably and colloquially called “pussy licking“.)
The importance of cunnilingus in sex is enormous. I would like to highlight the following main advantages to introduce the following practical speech:
Cunnilingus is:
- A preliminary which prepares the woman for penetration because it excites her and causes lubrication;
- For many women, it is a sufficient sexual act since it allows them to reach orgasm;
- It is a perfect sexual activity to counter ejaculation problems early how it satisfies the woman without penetration;
- Cunnilingus is the favorite sexual act for many women.
These facts should make you realize how important and relevant it is for you to learn how to do things right.
It should not be considered an extravagance (almost all women want it), an irrelevant part of sex (for many women it is essential) or as a simple tool to excite the woman to lead to penetration .
Done right, it’s every woman’s erotic desire.
Women want cunnilingus done well
Being licked well by a man, as I told you, is every woman’s wet dream. THE oral sex it is clearly appreciated by both sexes, but you should know that for women it has a particular importance.
As I explained to you in the articles on female masturbation and the fingering technique, the simplest penetration it does not have the same effect on women as it does on men. Most women (I repeat: most) notes that simple penetration is not enough for them to always achieve orgasm.
In other words, stimulation of more than one erogenous zone is necessary. An example is the stimulation of clitoris. If the man does not provide enough during penetration, many women do it themselves.
Sex today is one of the most reliable techniques to satisfy women, both because most of them like it very much and because it allows a combination with fingering which, as an alternative to simple licking, will satisfy 99% of women.
There lick it also has an important psychological effect that you cannot afford to overlook.
It seems that many women fear that the appearance, smell or taste of their private parts will disgust their partner. This fear is especially common among inexperienced girls and women. And although there are cases where the vagina has this effect (rare, I assure you!), lick the woman with intensity and, I dare say, taste, it will allow you to reassure the woman and relax her. (It’s a good idea to compliment her and/or her vagina.)
The relaxed woman has no problems ahead. The difficulties of a bring a woman on the other hand, they arise easily when insecurity, fear, fear lurks in one’s mind…
Oral sex is, understandably, the most intimate sexual act for many people – the one that demonstrates the most confidence.
Before cunnilingus: foreplay
The woman will appreciate the contact of your tongue on the vagina more if you have done so before licking it. the preliminaries simple but meaningful.
Kiss her, caress her, place your hand between her legs before going underneath, these obvious foreplays have the function of triggering her excitement. The blood that will quickly cause redness, swelling and lubrication in the vagina will prepare it for contact with your fingers and tongue.
Direct contact without foreplay could be unpleasant for the woman. Avoid if you do not yet know the level of sensitivity of the woman in question.
The open palm above the underwear is already exciting. Don’t burn the scenes; not have Rush. The woman needs these constructive phases. So let her feel the pressure of your hand for a moment before sliding under it and going skin to skin. At this moment, without haste or aggression, stimulate the lips and the clitoris with light and sustained touches, but don’t forget even the moments of pause with your hand supported. The woman will appreciate the touch and the possibility of moving on her own on your firm hand.
The movements that the woman makes by herself are one of the implicit indications of how she likes to be touched and, later, licked.
THE oral sex It is ideally practiced on a naked woman, although it is possible to excite her by kissing her over her panties.
Again, before applying the tongue, it is recommended to continue foreplay around the vagina, thighs and legs. Once started, it is best that the licking comes not from the clitoris, which may still be too sensitive, but from the outer lips of the vagina.
And remember no emergency
Cunnilingus: how to do it
There lick which precedes the phase centered on the clitoris will be long: as if you were licking an ice cream. The first phase involves visiting (aka licking) every part of the vagina. Thus, the most erogenous points of the woman in question begin to be discovered. Thus also begins your attentive observation of its body language your indicator of how it tastes and the key to determining the right pace.
THE pace in fact it is the key to female orgasm.
The crucial mistake many men make in licking and penetration is to interrupt or change the stimulus as soon as the woman gets used to receiving and enjoying it. The physical effort that the lick the constant and rhythmic demand is the price to pay to make the woman orgasm – a fact that must be accepted. Therefore: do not abandon the rhythm that turns out to be successful.
Licking clitoris, the most erogenous part of the female body, must be particularly calibrated to the woman’s preferences. By observing her reactions — the breathing, the moaning, the words, the spasms — you will gradually understand the direction, the speed and (especially) the rhythm of the lick that will lead her to orgasm more quickly.
Each of your experiments in this regard will be carried out with patience and method. You’ll try one lick, then another, always keeping an eye and ear on the woman’s body language and giving her time to get used to each particular lick.
The first rule: lick who likes does not change.
The importance of cunnilingus
Oral sex, licking – is a highly erotic sexual activity that makes a woman feel loved. While penetration can create a physical distance between lovers that makes the woman believe she is being “used,” oral sex makes her feel like the lover is worshiping her body.
However, to avoid the subconscious idea of withdrawal, I suggest you maintain contact with the rest of her body while you lick her. Caress her with your hands, touch her breasts. Some women also really like being held by hands. The effect you will always try to achieve is one of intimacy and affection.
I have already pointed out to you as for many women the lick is a preferential, important, even essential sexual act. They appreciate the man who can make them cum with his mouth, especially if they are aware of how many incompetent and selfish men there are in the world. Among the sexual abilities of men that women talk about in confidence to other women, cunnilingus is today among the first.
For many women, it is the most intimate sexual act possible. It represents to her your dedication to her body and your desire to please her by briefly neglecting yourself.
That is why oral sex it has historically been seen as a sacrifice and sometimes as a humiliating submission. This is a common female expectation these days and he does not suffer from any bad reputation.
Oral sex is an excellent tool to make the woman enjoy without resorting to penetration. For this reason it is also used to alleviate ejaculation difficulties early.
This can be a way to satisfy the woman and, so to speak, fulfill her sexual obligations. But it can also be a way to almost satisfy her, so a shorter penetration can act as a climax that makes her cum.
The connection between Cunnilingus and fingering
I think with all this in mind, you understand the importance of oral sex in your relationships with women. Finally, I want you to note that, as I mentioned before, cunnilingus is a technique that is good with tact. As long as the mouth is occupied, the hands should not be neglected, and if they do not stimulate the woman elsewhere in the body, they would do well to occupy the vagina.
To learn the fingering technique, I invite you to read the content You can seduce on this subject. There you will find detailed explanations of the technology and the mistakes to avoid. I repeat, the most reliable thing is to know the woman’s exact preferences in terms of fingering and oral sex combination.
For now, to continue this interesting topic, I will just point out that in addition to licking, anal penetration is also possible (and very appreciated by some women). As it is a delicate procedure, it must be carried out with caution and with the woman’s consent.
Wider, simpler and more effective is the famous “69”.
