We start the article with an email from one of our readers:
“I really like one of my co-workers, but she doesn’t seem to be interested in me at all. That is, we talk, we joke and it seems like sometimes he looks at me in the office but the signals he gives me are all negative. A few times we took the subway together after work, I tried to chat but she seemed practically bored and got off the subway shortly after, greeting me without any physical contact.
He said he was in a hurry. Same thing at a company party, after we were alone she ran off saying she had to meet someone else.
I was a little surprised. And yet, if he continues to stare at me at work, what could be the reason? If she’s not interested right now, how can I change her mind? Thank you in advance for your answer.”
The woman in question she is not interested. This seems obvious to me and I’m sorry I have to be so blunt. If you haven’t done anything so far to there seduce if you stop at polite jokes and just try to please him without giving any particular impression, it’s not even surprising.
A woman is not looking for a man who wants to serve her and she is not looking for a man who will meet her in those brief moments when no one is there, for fear of being seen. Everyone, men and women, wants challenges in life because challenges create emotions and satisfactions.
What challenge can a man who gives the impression of already being conquered represent for a woman?
If she only needs to look at you to know that she has enslaved you for her, you will certainly not be the man for the adventure.
The reason why the woman is not interested for you, it’s because you gave it no reason to exist. doormat behavior,
Servant, clown or close friend, he is not at all attractive. I will never stop saying it: a woman is a human being like you, with strengths and weaknesses, and she should not have absolute power to command your attention.
Your base should be physical contactthe emotional and carnal approach tool that communicates your desire to don’t be his friend. That you are afraid to make him understand this is absurd.
She already knows! The first thing she assumes about a man trying to get to know her is not that he wants to be a friend but that he wants to sleep with her.
So why are you trying to hide behind an excuse that also makes you look weak and doubtful? Deep seriousness, impeccable maturity and infinite reliability are the anti-seduction. Firstly because they are lies.
L’Friendship between men and women and very rare. Why do you try to be friends with every woman you like?
How to change a girl’s mind in practice?
To change a woman’s mind, you must first change your attitude. Look at yourself in the mirror and admit the truth: you want seduce hertake her to bed and own her. It’s the most natural thing in the world.
Conclusion
When you have admitted the truth to yourself, you can begin the path of seduction. You will rediscover your masculinity and approach the woman you love in a new way. Does it seem like he doesn’t want to talk to you?
To go out! Are you saying stupid? Tell him! Does he respond to you in a bad mood? Ignore him, walk away and move on. Never let his moods affect you.
This is how he shows her that he is a man, a stable and strong subject who does not need her but whom she perhaps needs.
