The problem I have with the concept of hot woman it doesn’t help us at all to think correctly and to seduce. First because with the question what is a hottie we enter the realm of pure subjectivity.
What to you is a hottie to another might just be a pretty woman on par with a thousand others.
The practical problem of the super cool woman is the exaggeration with which you perceive her outward appearance and which easily prevents you from having a serious knowledge of the woman in question.
What does it take to seduce a hottie?
Many men have a firm belief that if given the right opportunity, they could be liked by any woman, maybe even by seduce any woman. If only he really knew me…
But how true is this? And honestly: is it fair to expect a woman who doesn’t know you yet to judge you on parameters other than physical ones?
It’s simply a fact that women and men like strangers on their own physical aspect first of all. It is natural and inevitable. Physical appearance is almost the only thing visible to the eye. The man who knows exactly which parts of a woman’s body to weigh before approaching her obviously has no right to complain if the woman also analyzes his physical appearance first.
Also keep in mind that objectively attractive women are likely to take their attractiveness for granted. She therefore wants the suitor to reveal his qualities to someone else and considers the compliment on his physical appearance as trivial. She also makes her selection of men on the basis of qualities other than physical appearance.
What are these qualities that the super cool woman might be looking for in you? First of all, the ability to make her laugh and the ability to be ironic without taking yourself too seriously. In general a spirit of serenity, cheerfulness and lightness. But also your intelligence and your cultural level. Finally, your life experiences: the things you have done, the things you can do, and the things you are able to speak about convincingly.
It’s a good idea at this time to review your personal qualities, noting what you have and what you lack. These are your interpersonal skills that I want you to leverage, especially in your interactions with women, including those you think are “hot.” That you also take good care of your exterior, I take for granted (see all the discussions we’ve had on these pages about the importance of self-improvement).
Physical appearance is not necessary to seduce a hottie
As I explained to you, the pretty woman has a wide choice of physically attractive men. However, these men are often deprived of everything intellectual quality. For the attractive woman, it even becomes a habit, as predictable as it is boring, to receive advances from men who think they are attractive and deserve ipso facto the Conqueror.
To dissuade you personally from the unhealthy and dangerous idea that physical appearance is everything, let me point out that as a general rule, couples are made up of two people at different levels of attractiveness. The doll and geek stereotype, like many other stereotypes, has its basis in truth.
Physical appearance is subjective
The problem of subjective perception of “hot” women is already clear to you. But I want you to understand that yours too self-perception it’s subjective while your appearance is influenced by this perception.
The man who is at peace with himself and who, in addition to taking care of himself, accepts himself as he is, gives an impression of confidence and stability which is in itself attractive.
Conclusion
It is with the self-confidence this man cancels out the dazzling inordinate power of the super cool woman, a power that only exists because you gave it to him. The moment you realize that you are not looking at a goddess but a normal woman is the moment you can start applying all your normal seduction strategies even on the so-called super cool ones.
